6 Simple Steps to Help You Plan the Perfect Elopement
So you’ve decided to elope… Congrats!
“What now” you ask? Don’t worry, I’m here to help!
Step 1: DREAM BIG!
Close your eyes and imagine the BEST day ever. (ok you can open them back up now!) It’s helpful to think of this as the ultimate date night. Or if it were both of your birthdays combined. If you could do ANYTHING with your soon-to-be spouse, what would it be?
Think in terms of money not being a factor. You’d be surprised at how easy and budget-friendly it can be to have your dream elopement day.
Are you going on an epic guided tour of Iceland’s Laugavegur Trail? Or are you more laid back and prefer a private chef to make your favorite meal at a luxury beach resort while enjoying a beautiful sunset? How about sunrise in a hot air balloon adventure going over Utah’s spectacular rock formations? The world is truly your oyster when you choose to elope!
Step 2: Main Decisions
Now that you have a general idea of your dream elopement experience, it’s time to begin narrowing things down. Again, remember the big picture and imagine how you want to feel on your elopement day. 3 key questions to ask yourselves:
– Who will be there?
– Where will you be?
– How long will you be there for?
These help narrow things down like budget, activities, and the overall vibe of your elopement.
Step 3: Dive Into The Details
This is one of my favorite parts! Based on where / when / with whom you’ll be eloping, it’s time to research things like flights, lodging, vendors, activities, permits, attire, and begin putting together a packing list so you’re not scrambling at the last minute. I am more than happy to help with each of these if you elope with me as your photographer.
Step 4: Create a Timeline
Now that all of your details are figured out, it’s time to put together a timeline to map out every part of your day. Which activities will you enjoy together? Which spots will you explore? Meaningful items to incorporate, etc. Based on what you know so far, it helps to decide if you would prefer a sunrise/midday/sunset ceremony and work from there.
Step 5: Pack Your Essentials
Having traveled a lot myself, I find it’s easiest to make a list of ‘must haves’ and ‘nice to haves’ and start throwing them into your suitcase(s). Arrange them neatly once you feel like it’s all in there. Make sure to also communicate with guests (if any) to help them make their packing decisions as well.
Bonus Tip: Always *roll* your wedding attire. Never fold. This will help minimize any wrinkles.
Step 6: ENJOY YOUR DAY!
Breathe, relax, and get married! Enjoy all the effort you’ve put into planning and dreaming up your perfect elopement. Remember to embrace the unpredictable, always be present, and focus on the fact that you get to promise forever to your very best friend while having an amazing, unique experience together. Yay!